Have you tried speaking with someone with a very plain intention and they just take it overboard? Or you have tried asking for help from someone and they just shut you out with the thought that you are trying to use them?. And you will just be wondering how exactly are they thinking!
If you then take it a step further to say the same thing to someone else or ask someone else for the exact same help you are asking from previous persons, and this new person does not see anything wrong in what you are asking for, they might even go overboard and do more for you.
That's it! same action can mean different thing to different people the same way, same words can mean different things to different people.
Because the moment a person receives an impulse from the environment (in terms of words or actions) it goes straight into their mental component and their mental component gives interpretation based on what it has grown to known. So someone who had experiences of being used in their past life, and their mental capacities have built the knowledge of being used in them. Anytime they see someone who is reaching out to ask for their help, they can conclude that the person is only trying to use them because a MINDSET has been built overtime.
So the end result of being through negative scenerios and experiences is that it builds wrong MINDSETS in you that limits the possibilities of things In the future.
See you in the next episode...........
