Mindset

 

As a child develops and gets different opinions and ideologies into them like I explained last week, there is also the part where a child learns certain things through excesses that might be communicated through their environment. For example, at the earliest stage when the child is dependent on his/her parent or a caregiver for anything, one major habit that gets established in the child during this phase is that; the child learns either to trust or not. At this phase the child is totally dependent on the parents or caregiver for major needs, if the parties involved display their duties accurately well then the child builds trust In their framework and the deficiency here will be that, if the parties involved were lagging in playing out their duties then the child learn not to trust. The bad here is that, the child is not learning not to trust his/her parents alone, the child struggle with trusting everyone around them.

You might then be wondering, why does everyone have to bare the consequence of someone's mistake, this is why it is a mindset. At that stage of development, the only being the child recognizes around them are those who attend to their basic needs, and if you remember from this beginning of this discussion, I mentioned that a child's soul is like a blank board when given birth to, so every of their exposure forms imprint that makes the mind up, so every good and bad experience a child is exposed to while developing forms every of their mindsets and this is why you have believes and mindsets you don't know how or where you got them from.

To be continued........